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When Siblings Abuse Siblings
Labels:
Parenting,
Sibling Abuse
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My kids bicker a lot.
The small one does not know she's small, forever bullying her brother. Even though the boy recognizes the fact that she's younger, when he cannot bear the “bullying” and the almost eely way she slides out of getting punished for her pranks, he lashes out. In form of knocks or swats...at any convenient part of Zi's body!
"Pls what do you do if you have a neighbor that beats his sister up for no reason all the time?!"
— Hazel A. (@Zitera) June 12, 2013
My kids fight a lot.
Now, it’s easy to pass this behaviour off as childish exuberance but with what is going on in the world these days, I chose to know better. Like Sisi Yemmie said, “Na from clap these things dey take enter dance.”
For every time Chets hits Zi, whether justifiable or not, he gets punished. When asked why he's punished, he would reply “Because I hit my sister.” And why is that wrong, I would ask. And he would reply, “I am not supposed to hit any girl or lady or woman.”
He didn't get this logic initially. How does he get
wronged and get punished for being wronged? But he's beginning to get it now.
Especially when the Hubs asks, “Have you ever seen me beat/slap/hit your mom?” to
which he answers, “All you people do is Kiss! Yuck!”Now, it’s easy to pass this behaviour off as childish exuberance but with what is going on in the world these days, I chose to know better. Like Sisi Yemmie said, “Na from clap these things dey take enter dance.”
For every time Chets hits Zi, whether justifiable or not, he gets punished. When asked why he's punished, he would reply “Because I hit my sister.” And why is that wrong, I would ask. And he would reply, “I am not supposed to hit any girl or lady or woman.”
My kids are 6 & 3 respectively.
With all these bickers and fights, you can NEVER doubt for one moment, the love or bond between my duo. Never. Nobody says so much as an ugly word to Zi, especially in school... Do they not know her elder brother is Chetanna A?!!! He is that protective of her. And you cannot punish him unduly without Zi whining you to hell and back...
That's what siblings are about. Love, Fight, Tolerance, Make up, Love!
So when I got this chat from this young friend of mine, my first question was “How old are these siblings?” My second question was “Are they blood siblings?”. Cos this is so weird. When I got the full story from this child that couldn't stop crying long enough to make sense, I sat down and cried! Usually soft-spoken and just a joy to listen to, her cries this morning ripped at me!
"Turns her into a punching bag. And is beating her up with canes (2 at the same time) blows. Sister is 20, brother is 26"This is sooooo wrong! So wrong! How long has this been going on? And what usually provokes him?
— Hazel A. (@Zitera) June 12, 2013
I don't
know what to do today. It’s my brother and me. I barely have the strength to
walk. This has been going on since I’ve known him. I’ve always been in boarding
house, then University so it happens on mostly holidays, when he's not in
school as well. Today, I barely said a word to him. I wish I knew what I did to
provoke him. Just yesterday, he smashed the DVD in my room because I removed
his movie (that refused to play) and put in mine. This beating is like an
everyday thing.
I've
always been pointing this behaviour out to my Mum. Always! All she keeps saying
is “He's your elder brother.” Until lately, some months back. I lent him my
laptop. He promised to bring it back in March. He brought it just last month
and everything was wrong with it. When I complained, he beat me. That's just
when my mom started seeing all that I'd been saying for years. Just last
month!!!!
I don't
know what my brother studied in school. How would I? How can I have a
relationship with this kind of person? I forget I have a brother; it’s that
bad. I have all sorts of scars on my body. Old scars from him. Normally he uses
belts, flower vases, shoes, all sorts to beat me. And then, he bites me as
well. All my mom keeps saying is “Two wrongs don't make a right!”
Scarred: Enough or Too Much?
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“No, don't touch my head like
that!”
“Mummy, Ifunnaya is bending my
head backwards!”“Ifunnaya, leave alone I want to bathe myself!”
“Why did you push me? Now my leg is bleeding. Mummy, Ifunnaya has cut my legs o!”
“Oooooooh, this water is now cold!”
“Mummy, I have not finished my home work oo!”
“Ifunnaya, leave me alooooooooooone! I can dress myself!”
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| {This was their exact same reaction when i showed them the picture of a burning body. Would teach them to stop playing with fuel and generator. But i digress...} |
Photo Credit: Google
It goes on and on. I always
listen in with one ear as I get ready for work and sometimes when I can’t deal
with silliness anymore, I go meet him at the bath with Mr Cane in tow.
Since I always drop them off at
school on my way to work, some days, I always threaten to leave him at home and
take only Zi to school. But not going to school is not a get-out-of-jail free
card. I make sure to promise that if school was not attended for a day because
of tardiness, cane must touch body. 10 times.
The thing with kids is this: if
you threaten/promise to do something to/for them long enough and you renege on
all occasions, your word won’t count for shit where they are concerned. I had
made this particular threat for so long but for each time I threaten, his
father pleads on his behalf and hustles him off to the car.
Today started as usual.
Today, I made my “promise” as
usual. Today, he thought it was business as usual.
Today is #Day5 of my #JuiceFast.
Today, I didn't sleep a wink because his sister was crying from earache all night.
Today, the combination of hunger and lack of sleep was doing me in.
Today, his father left the house at the crack of dawn.
Today, I got into my car and left him...with Zi wailing, “Mummy, please don't leave my bwother!”
Journey To Sexy: Day 2
Labels:
Juice Fast,
Juicing,
Weight Loss
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Still standing...barely.
I kinda woke up feeling Anyways, i thought today was gonna end in a cry-fest. I usually cry myself to sleep on Day 2. This one didn’t. Got a bit woozy at about 3pm but the mind is a powerful weapon!
Breakfast - Ugu Juice
Lunch – Grape JuiceDinner – Carrot + Tomato Juice
In-Between Meal Snack – I nearly drowned myself with 3L of water!
Because i was too lazy to ask Google how to go
about juicing vegetables, especially our local veggies, i went ahead and asked
my Philips Juicer Instruction manual.
How I Juiced my Ugu...
♥ I cut the vegetable into
tiny chunks and placed inside a smoothie blender...♥ Next, i squeezed in some lime/lemon juice into the blender. The more the merrier really...
♥ I then added ginger to spice up the drink; threw in ice cubes for good measure...
♥ I blended the mix to some extent, poured the entire mix into the juicer and taa-daaaaaa...
♥ Ugu juice is ready!
I'm sure there are so many other EASIER ways to do this juuicing thingie. Y'all help a sister if you know any of those.
I barely have the strength to type out my next thought. Heck, i can’t even remember what i want to type. I just gonna say Toodles now and hope this post makes a smidgen of sense.
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@ZiteraI barely have the strength to type out my next thought. Heck, i can’t even remember what i want to type. I just gonna say Toodles now and hope this post makes a smidgen of sense.
Xoxo...
Journey To Sexy: Day 1
Labels:
Juice Fast,
Juicing,
Weight Loss
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It seems like i’ve been on this since
forever. Sometimes, i’m committed to it. Some other times, i can’t be bothered.
I would start a 3-day detox program and half-way through it, i’ll jump ship. No
energy but mostly no incentive. The last time i was this committed to losing
weight, i lost 9kg. October, 2012. There was no incentive, except i could feel my
obesity weighing me down.
It has to be said. Really, it has to be said. Food
is a SWEET deal! But as sweet as it is, it cannot top money in my books. And
there-in lie the incentive for this current weight loss stint. The hubby thinks
i cannot lose another 10kg in 3 months. I think i can lick it 2 months. The
rules are simple:
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If after
the final weigh-in i’m 0.1kg shy of 10kg, he collects my cheque.
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If
however i max 10kg or above, he credits me double the amount.
Inspired much!
I’m already spending that money in advance...that’s
how confident i am. I love a good dare!
Day 1- Started on a 7-Day Juice
Breakfast – Watermelon Juice.
Lunch – Watermelon + Mango Juice
Dinner – Ugu Juice with a dash of ginger and lemon.
I honestly thought i would hate that ugu juice thingie. Wonders, i loved it. Like totally. I’ve had to tell my stomach there’s no point growling & complaining... Food will not be had until day 8. It seems not to mind so much though. I wasn’t as dizzy as i thought i’ll be. Energy didn’t wane much. Like, i had enough to fit in an hour of Zumba dancing, with my smiles still intact. I doubt i’ll be smiling much tomorrow.
Aside the 12 trips to the restroom to return the 4+ litres of liquid i drank all day, and the really mean duo of SB and Olaedo who sent me pictures of their respective lunch just about the time my hunger was peaking, i’ll say Day 1 went just fine!
80.2kg.
The universe didn’t deem it fit to take away a miserly 0.3kg and make it a nice cohesive figure like 79.9kg, which sounds and feels way better than 80.2kg. Yea, 80.2kg is our start-off. I just want my jigida to sit properly on the tummy. Is that too much to ask?
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Xoxo...
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